Sorry to say but you wasted your money if you paid to 2nd day delivery! Because truth is that everyone will get their's on the very same day regardless of what delivery package you paid for. Also that screenshot, everyone that ordered the phone from apple has seen it by now when they so eagaly checked their shipping. Sucks but oh well.
I was in a Rogers Plus store (Rogers is Canada's iPhone Carrier) today, and they were talking about how many 3GS's they'd be getting, which probobly means that they're almost there. This could well be true.